“But when new people came to work, she sat at this table, and she did this when I came to work there. She asked merely this question: What is your name, or what is the name you want to give? That was the only question she ever asked and the only thing she ever said to anyone. I remember that, because I had never been asked that by anyone. I am told that among certain guerilla groups that is the question they ask everyone. But I’d never been asked that question. Anyone who asked me my name always asked me my name to learn my true name. But to have someone tell me that I had the choice of telling my true name or only the name I wanted to give.
What name did you give? I asked.”
–Mosquito by Gayl Jones, pp. 104-105
Our names signal many things such as agency, inheritance, borderlands, and genders. The names we give also withhold many more things. What constitutes the truth of a true name? When does the name you want to give shift or blur?
Take five minutes to answer the question: “What name did you give?” and free-write the scene in which you gave this name. This scene can come from memory or you can write a new memory into being.